Parents That Have Lost A Child

~~Our Superstar~~

We lost our 3 year old little boy Steven in January to cancer [Neuroblastoma stage 4] ~~ He fought for 14 long months until he could fight no longer ~~ He is loved & missed more than words can say ~~ He was and will always be *OUR SUPERSTAR* ~~ He was GONE TOO SOON...X♥X

Jane Steven Moore Mummy October 17, 2007

Before losing my firstborn son Liam due to severe pre-eclampsia at 31wks, I also suffered 5 miscarriages.
I was naive enough to think I'd be bringing my little lad home.. but getting to that stage..who wouldn't?
Love to all you parents out there xxxxxxx

Donna October 16, 2007

My son Matthew was taken away from me on 13th June 2007. Each day goes by and the pain gets worse. I miss him so much and cannot think about life carrying on without him. I have to live with the fact that he was killed while he was doing something he loved - riding his bike. I am haunted by his conversations that he used to have with me when he would tell me that the cars on the road were thoughtless when it came to a cyclist passing by. Often, he would say, 'they just pull out without looking' so why didn't the car he was passing break ? and why didn't she pull over to let him in ? If she had he may well still be here with me today instead of ending up in the front of an on coming car. RIP to all our children whatever their age when taken from us. My thoughts and wishes are with all of you - with love xx

Lena Mills October 16, 2007

my precious 3 lost babies & my precious granddaughter

i lost 3 babies 2 of them at 14 weeks & 3rd one at 8 weeks, the last baby i lost was almost 18 years ago but i never forget them, i often wonder what they would be like,who they would look like i didnt know the sex of my babies or the reason why it happened, i also have 3 precious children here with me, my granddaughter skye was born sleeping this year my daughter is not coping too well at the minute, my heart goes out to everyone who has lost a child,life seems so unfair . god bless all our angels & keep them safe till it is time for us to be with them. i can also be a shoulder to cry on if anyone would like to talk feel free to contact me

Elaine Smith (Mother) October 15, 2007

heart broken mum

I lost my son nathan 9 weeks ago he was my only child. Nathan was sitting at a red traffic light on his way home when 2 cars racing each other failed to stop they wanted to jump the red light to show off to there friends.Nathan was hit by one car which knocked him into the path of the other and at a speed of 95 miles an hour he was hit thrown off his bike into the air then the car hit a barrier and then ran over nathan completely,not once did this driver aged 17 brake his car after hitting the barrier carried on 150 yards till it came to a stop so u can see how fast he was travelling.nathan was still breathing but went into shock within minutes attempts to ressuitate him failed he died.His injuries were horrific one police office is still on sick leave because nathans leg came off in his hand when he tried to move him. As you can immagine my life is ended my heart is in a thousand pieces.my thoughts and condolonces to all mums that have lost a child i no your pain.

Yvonne Savage (Mother) October 15, 2007

I lost my baby son Jake this year in February he was stillborn. I know the sadness and heartache that comes with the loss of a child. So i offer my hand of friendship to anyone who has suffered the pain of child loss. If anyone feels they need someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on please feel free to contact me.
Love and best wishes from Lorraine xxxxx

Lorraine Oakley October 15, 2007

OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO YOU ALL

WE LOST OUR PRECIOUS BABY BOY ENZO ON 26/07/07 HE WAS 11 WEEKS OLD HE LEFT BEHIND MANY BROKEN HEARTS AND A BIG BROTHER AGED 6 AND A BIG SISTER AGED 21 MONTHS HE ALSO LEFT BEHIND VERY HURT LOST HEART BROKEN MOMMY & DADDY ENZO WAS A HAPPY HEALTHY LITTLE BOY LOVED BY EVERYONE WHO HAD THE PLEASURE OF MEETING HIM ITS BEEN 12 WEEKS SINCE HE BECAME A ANGEL AND WE STILL DON'T HAVE A CAUSE OF DEATH. SO MANY PEOPLE GO THROUGH THIS PAIN AND NO ONE UNDERSTANDS EXCEPT THOSE THAT HAVE LOST A CHILD OUR LOVE AND THOUGHTS GO OUT TO EVERYONE ON GTS THAT HAS LOST A CHILD AND ALL THOSE THAT ARE TOO HEARTBROKEN TO USE THIS SITE AND ALL THOSE THAT WILL REGRETABLY END UP WITH A CHILD IN HEAVEN STAY STRONG THATS ALL WE CAN DO LOVE ALWAYS EVERYONE

Claire Enzos Mommy (MOMMY AND DADDY) October 15, 2007

just say im sorry

JUST SAY 'i'M SORRY'
You don't know how I feel
Please don't tell me that you do.
There's just one way to know--have you lost a child too?
'You'll have another child!'--must I hear this each day?
Can I get another mother, too, if mine should pass away?
Don't say it was 'God's will'--
That's not the God I know,
Would God on purpose break my heart,
Then watch as my tears flow?
'Aren't you better yet?'
Is that what I heard you say?
NO! A part of my heart aches--
I'll always feel some pain.
You think that silence is kind,
But it hurts me even more.
I want to talk about my child
Who has gone through death's door.
Don't say these things to me,
Although you do mean well.
They do not take away the pain away;
I must go through this hell.
I will be better--slow but sure--
And it helps to have you near.
But a simple 'I'm sorry you lost your child'
is all I need to hear.

Elaine Smith (Mother) October 15, 2007